Xiao Zhi had once tried to salvage the relationship, humbling himself and lowering his pride to do so. He was willing to sacrifice his dignity and bring it down to the dust, but the other party's attitude remained firm, leaving no room for reconciliation.,"Yeah, your mom's right, try to see the bigger picture." Father chimed in as well.,The most effective way to get over a relationship is to keep yourself busy, distract yourself, and leave no time to dwell on it.。